May 9, 2013
"A woman from the audience asks: ‘Why were there so few women among the Beat writers?’ and [Gregory] Corso, suddenly utterly serious, leans forward and says: “There were women, they were there, I knew them, their families put them in institutions, they were given electric shock. In the ’50s if you were male you could be a rebel, but if you were female your families had you locked up."

Stephen Scobie, on the Naropa Institute’s 1994 tribute to Allen Ginsberg  (via thisisendless)

I’m just frozen. Absences of women in history don’t “just happen,” they are made.

(via queereyes-queerminds)

(Source: fuckyeahbeatniks, via barkingatleaves)

May 8, 2013
"If your butthole likes having things in it, go forth and enjoy. If it doesn’t, then you should probably listen to your body and leave your anus to its main purpose of excreting waste. If you’re trying to placate a boyfriend who won’t stop nagging you about fucking you in the ass, then he himself is an asshole, and I’d suggest he go fuck himself."

Stoya, on the will to perform (via montecervesa)

(via inunassumingguise)

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May 7, 2013
"Woman does not emerge from a man’s ribs, not ever, it’s he who emerges from her womb."

Nizar Qabbani (via poikilotherm)

YES THIS.

(via queerconfusion)

May 7, 2013
"I’m wary of anything that smacks of “making feminism sexy.” Sex-positivity should be a part of feminism because sexuality is important—not because feminism needs spicing up. I really don’t want to imply any “be a feminist ally and you’ll get lots of kinky sex” deals here, or any “don’t worry, we’re not man-haters, we’re into stripteases and blowjobs!” cajoling. The challenge of integrating sex-positivity into feminism is communicating “women’s sexual desire matters” without giving any ammunition to “women are for sex."

The Pervocracy: What I Mean When I Say I’m Sex-Positive. (via sexisnottheenemy)

I can be very bad about this. Feminism that appears sexy is in no way “better” or “more liberated” then feminism that isn’t. 

(via sexisnottheenemy)

May 6, 2013

queerconfusion:

strong-sexy-fit:

I hate how when i eat a lot, i feel the need to defend myself. I shouldn’t have to explain myself to people. If i want to eat a lot, ill fucking eat a lot. And if you have a problem with it.. I’ll eat you too.

I’m very happy that someone said this. And the reverse is true too. 

Food policing isn’t cute.

(Source: strong-sexy-fit)

May 6, 2013
"Memories do not always soften with time; some grow edges like knives."

— Barbara Kingsolver, The Lacuna (via erraticintrovert)

(Source: slanting, via queerconfusion)

April 29, 2013
"It is unfair to ask a woman to leave aside her personal experience and discuss feminist issues in the abstract. You are discussing the stuff of her life. Asking her to “not make it personal” is to ask her to wrench her womanhood from her personhood. Don’t play Devil’s advocate. Seriously. Just don’t."

Shakesville: I Am Not a Political Football (via finedineonmyvegangenitalia)

(via hciwrc)

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April 29, 2013
"Love, being in love, isn’t a constant thing. It doesn’t always flow at the same strength. It’s not always like a river in flood. It’s more like the sea. It has tides, it ebbs and flows. The thing is, when love is real, whether it’s ebbing or flowing, it’s always there, it never goes away. And that’s the only proof you can have that it is real, and not just a crush or an infatuation or a passing fancy."

— This is All: The Pillow Book of Cordelia Kenn by Aidan Chambers (via lostinthesounds)

(via feminist-submissive)

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April 29, 2013
"Toxic masculinity is damaging to men, too, positing them as stoic sex-and-violence machines with allergies to tenderness, playfulness, and vulnerability. A reinvented masculinity will surely give men more room to express and explore themselves without shame or fear."

— Friedman, Male Toxicity (via practicenap)

(via feminist-submissive)

April 29, 2013
Ygritte: You know nothing Jon Snow.
Jon Snow: *eats that pussy out like crazy*
Ygritte: Okay, you do know something.
April 26, 2013
"More recently, the media has speculated that Adam Lanza was motivated by bullying he experienced during his time as a student at Sandy Hook Elementary. Conversely, not a single person has inquired about the mental wellbeing of the Boston Bombing suspects. Experts in psychology, violence and mass murder haven’t appeared on cable news or written op-eds for the New York Times and Washington Post with insight into what causes people to snap. No one has speculated about bullying that Tamerlan and Dzhokhar’s may have experienced, particularly Tamerlan, who was in middle school when he immigrated to the United States, an age when bullying is at its peak. Of course, all of these questions are rhetorical since we already know the answer: Adam Lanza and James Holmes are Christian white males whose names have the appropriate number of consonants. Dzhokhar and Tamerlan Tsarnaev are Muslim (which cancels out white) males who immigrated to the US from a region of the world where names are difficult to pronounce (for us)."

James Holmes, Adam Lanza, Dzhokhar Tsarnaev and Double Standards
(via barkingatleaves)

“James Holmes’s religious background was never closely examined as a potential motivating factor in his decision to shoot up a movie theatre. His family’s Pastor was never expected to declare his love for America and denounce Christian extremists to prove his loyalties.  Adam Lanza attended a Catholic church but no one ever speculated that the Vatican played a role in his deadly rampage.

The NRA material found in Adam Lanza’s home (shooting guides, certificate) was never viewed as suspicious or worthy of further investigation into the NRA’s potential role in provoking the Newtown massacre.”

(via barkingatleaves)

April 17, 2013
"You don’t owe prettiness to anyone. Not to your boyfriend/spouse/partner, not to your co-workers, especially not to random men on the street. You don’t owe it to your mother, you don’t owe it to your children, you don’t owe it to civilization in general. Prettiness is not a rent you pay for occupying a space marked ‘female’."

Erin McKean (via oxblood)

Forever reblog.

(via feminist-submissive)

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April 17, 2013
Amen to that.

Amen to that.

(Source: kateordie, via ambidextrously-erotic)

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April 15, 2013
"

Reduce cellulite. Be gone dry skin. Vanish unwanted facial hair. Diminish stretch marks. Fade age spots. Eliminate feminine odor. Lose weight. Dissolve belly fat. Erase wrinkles.

I think someone wants me to disappear.

"

— Guerrilla Girls  (via ceedling)

(Source: furociousfemme, via feminist-submissive)

April 8, 2013
30 Days of Kink - Day 16

femdomdiaries:

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?


I think one of the more difficult things I’ve had to deal with is how my Feminism relates to my kinks and the kinks of my partners.

For instance, the sissification fetish. The desire for men to be feminized and then degraded. The whole point of this kink is for men to be treated how women are, to be degraded how they are degraded in porn and in real life.

Obviously that hits home with me. I am a woman. I experience this daily.

So to have a man tell me he wants to be sissified, is difficult because as soon as we are done he gets to take off the costume. He gets to be a man again. His privilege is so prevalent that he can wear my gender to get him off and then be able to take it off whenever he wants. While I remain woman.

As a Feminist it’s important for me to be constantly critiquing my kinks and the kink community. Which can be difficult because a lot of fetishes challenge my very staunch feelings on these issues. It’s also difficult because a lot of people in the kink community don’t want to critique the problems, because it causes them to have to think twice about themselves. 

Degrading someone, especially with feminizing words and actions, is something that I have many problems with; and yet it turns me on.

It’s a polarizing and confusing feeling at times.

If any of you amazing followers have thoughts on being feminist and being kinky and wanting to critique bdsm without kink shaming I’d love to hear it.

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