You will be my Vixen, as we improvise, delivering a captivating performance every time.
kitty in the top one!
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May 8, 2013
I remember vividly seeing this video for the first time while I was in middle school and without even realizing what I was feeling being so, so turned on by Reznor writhing around all wrapped up in black leather.
I would fall to sleep inventing scenarios where I found him all bruised and scraped in a strange dungeon and I would nurse him back to health and then we’d cuddle, nothing sexual.
And then years later when similar fantasies became sexual and the internet opened up the world of BDSM porn, it all made sense.
(Source: fyeahnineinchnails, via bruisewitch)
May 6, 2013
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May 2, 2013
Stoya is an beautiful pet - XVIDEOS.COM
(Almost) everything that turns me on at once.
April 30, 2013
- teethhearts answered: I don’t think I have an answer, but this is especially hard if your Dom is into humiliation or talking “mean.” #bdsmproblems
- meenomee said: I read a story about how a dom told his sub that her safe word one night would be “i’m pretty”. He did it for her. So if she started to say it, she’d start to believe it.
- kurabunoyama answered: i think my little girl is the prettiest in the world & i hope i tell her enough. but i also think it is important to be a basketball star too
- soybrain said: As dominate as a person might be he/she should make their sub feel attractive. If one person isn’t comfortable with themselves or the situation it takes away from the experience
i guess in my opinion it’s just psychologically problematic for an individual to acquire all of their physical confidence from one other person’s opinion. i feel like there should be some sense of self confidence intact, and my question is more about how to maintain that sense of self when you are positively obsessed with the opinion of your most perfect master, even if he does think you are the prettiest little girl in the world (i fucking love u daddy).
i think in the best case scenarios, doms not only make their subs feel pretty by giving them their validation, but they also help subs to see themselves as pretty regardless of their or anyone’s opinion. kind of like the “if you give a dude a fish” scenario…
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Eva waits as the river flows.
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30 Days of Kink - Day 16
Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?
I think one of the more difficult things I’ve had to deal with is how my Feminism relates to my kinks and the kinks of my partners.For instance, the sissification fetish. The desire for men to be feminized and then degraded. The whole point of this kink is for men to be treated how women are, to be degraded how they are degraded in porn and in real life.
Obviously that hits home with me. I am a woman. I experience this daily.
So to have a man tell me he wants to be sissified, is difficult because as soon as we are done he gets to take off the costume. He gets to be a man again. His privilege is so prevalent that he can wear my gender to get him off and then be able to take it off whenever he wants. While I remain woman.
As a Feminist it’s important for me to be constantly critiquing my kinks and the kink community. Which can be difficult because a lot of fetishes challenge my very staunch feelings on these issues. It’s also difficult because a lot of people in the kink community don’t want to critique the problems, because it causes them to have to think twice about themselves.
Degrading someone, especially with feminizing words and actions, is something that I have many problems with; and yet it turns me on.
It’s a polarizing and confusing feeling at times.
If any of you amazing followers have thoughts on being feminist and being kinky and wanting to critique bdsm without kink shaming I’d love to hear it.
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